When my grandma purchased the land that camp sits on, she made a sweet request to the Lord and asked that everyone who stepped foot on this property would feel the presence of the Lord. I have had the golden opportunity to watch this peace land inside the heart and soul of many lives while being a part of the ministry here at Snowbird over the last two decades. The Lord is so very good!
My life is a beautiful chaotic mess, raising 2 teenagers, one pre-teen, a kindergartener, and a toddler. I’m always on the go—like so many of you. However, in the busy-ness, it has been very refreshing to have a few moments to myself preparing for the Respond Women’s Conference.
Most of that preparation has been in reading through the book of Philippians. The old truth that to live is Christ has breathed a new freedom into my lungs and drawn me into His marvelous light once again. Paul’s words compel us to dig deep and press close to our Savior, dying to ourselves that we might live. If our lives are found in Christ, we can be women who are unified in a way that speaks the truth of our Savior in the midst of suffering.
My prayer for the women who come to Respond is that they would feel Christ as they step onto the ground here…that they’d hear Him softly calling them into a place of humble re-purpose…soaked and saturated with the joy of the Lord. I can’t wait to see each of you ladies! There’s still a few spots left, so if you’re thinking of coming, please do! Register today.
Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak…
I have learned the hard way that the best way to become an effective communicator is to become an effective and sincere listener. In ministry and life, I tend to want to hear someone out before telling my story or giving advice. We have all been around that person who seems to care less about what you have to say and is determined to tell his story or give his wisdom. I am learning that there are three things that will make me a more effective leader, parent, husband, and friend.
First, learn to listen to someone who is in need or in pain and be willing to simply empathize or sympathize with them. The bible says we should “weep with those who weep”(Romans 12:15), and, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”(Galatians 6:2). So I need to learn to listen and do my best to “feel” what my friend is feeling. I don’t necessarily need to give them life-changing counsel.
Second, I need to learn to share in the excitement, joy, or pain, of a person’s story. I need to become a listener in their story. Everyone has a “story”. Have you ever known someone for a period of time, feeling like you knew him or her pretty well, only to learn that there was a lot more to the person than you realize. I have often been guilty of knowing someone for years before I really learned that this person had a story to tell. So many people carry pain and baggage, but a listening and sincere ear is often the best way to minister to that person. My goal as a believer should be to move beyond acquaintance and toward genuine relationship.
Lastly, I am often guilty of failing to “rejoice with those who rejoice” (Romans 12:15). When someone is happy or excited because of something they have experienced or learned, I should share in the excitement. I don’t need to be a know-it-all. I need to be eager to learn through what others are experiencing.
These are principals that have been very helpful for me in being a better brother in Christ, but I still have so much to learn. I hope they will help you too.
I wanted to share the opening session of the SWO16 Winter Be Strong Men’s Conference, which happened last weekend. A couple hundred men from all over the U.S. were in attendance. From Northern Illinois to South Florida, men came together for fellowship, recreation, and discipleship. I hope this is encouraging and helpful. Give a listen, then pass along.
“Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him…”
The bible is full of imperatives which are commands and calls to action for the believer. A story from a good pastor-friend of mine drove this home recently.
This brother was preparing for an international trip one morning well before daylight, when suddenly there was a violent knock at his front door. Looking at his watch he saw that it didn’t yet register 5:30 am. He wondered who would be at his front door at this hour. In that moment of uneasiness, he also remembered that there had been a couple of recent break-ins in his neighborhood. With stealth, he made his way through the dimly lit hallway that led to his front door, and crossed to a nearby window that would give him an unnoticed point of view. From there, he looked out and saw a man with his face mostly covered by a hoodie, peering into the tiny window in the front door. The man held one hand behind his back and stood in a very offensive posture. Fearing the hidden hand held a weapon, my buddy went on the offensive (this proved to be true, as the man had a pistol). By recognizing the signs of a home invasion, my friend was able to stop the man in his tracks and send him fleeing. The police were called and the man was later arrested. What began as an attack that could have left my friend’s family hurt or killed, turned into a thwarted plan that left the armed burglar in jail, lucky to not have been shot. My friend’s vigilance saved lives. A tactical principal held true. Action beats reaction. Every time.
This story ended favorably because he not only read the warning signs, but he remained vigilant and steadfast. And he was armed. He knew the posture and signs and had armed himself in the defense of his family. But locks and guns only go so far. His MINDSET is what saved his family that morning.
I wish more men would take the spiritual defense of their own families more seriously. We have been called to holiness, and to fight for our wives, marriages, children, and our own godliness. This requires vigilance. I have to be aware of my own temptation and sin, my own weaknesses and tendencies, and my own knack for abandoning my walk with The Lord. As a father and shepherd, I am responsible for the safety of those in my home, in my care. Defending my family isn’t just a physical responsibility, it’s a spiritual one and an emotional one too. If I am vigilant in my pursuit of Christ and godliness for my own life, then I will more likely be in tune with the needs of my wife and kids.
When the enemy comes, I will take action and go on the offensive, rather than waiting until after he attacks and trying to react defensively.
Knowing the roaring lion and his tactics as Paul instructs in 2 Corinthians 2:11 is critical. Knowing The Lion of Judah and submitting to him daily will enable me to ROAR BACK. Besides, action always beats reaction. Arm yourself.
2 Corinthians 2:11
2 Corinthians 10:4-6
I want to be the kind of person that makes others better. Sometimes this comes about by setting an example. Paul told Timothy to “set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity”. One of the simple things that I can do as an effective Christ follower is to set this type of an example. This will encourage others and create a positive atmosphere that will be contagious and productive.
If I am always complaining, or negative, or simply ungodly in my speech and attitude, I will create dead weight for those around me. I will become a downward force that is a burden. But if I will be focused on encouraging and working hard, refusing to complain or be negative, then I will help those around me be better too.
A man or woman of God should be dedicated to hard work and to making others better. This will reflect well on Christ, and will make the company, the office, the crew, the class or whatever other day-to-day group of people by which I am surrounded more positive and joyful.